The 12 Laws Of Identity

#12 Laws Of Personal Growth Who Am I? What Am I? Find out more about spiritual growth, identity.

Who Am I? What Am I? The 12 Laws Of Identity

Law 1. You have a right to feel. It is OK to feel all of your feelings. It is OK to be angry with others who have harmed you. Anger is a safety device, and it also helps to separate you from wrong identity beliefs, and from those who programmed you. BE what you are in the moment. If you are angry, then be that. If you are sad, be that. If you are lost, be that. If you are ecstatically happy, be that. Don't try to clean everything up. Feelings happen for reasons. Feelings come from real things and real experiences.

Law 2. You can't save anyone, but maybe you can save yourself. You can't save your parents, or brothers and sisters. You can only save yourself. You can set an example for how they can help themselves. But, that is all. You can't prop them up, fix their feelings, or do brain surgery. Let each of them decide their own path. They most likely will not listen to you, any way.

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The Art of War - a mind hack!

The War of Art, and JoCo on becoming a “true person” | 43 Folders

Resistance can be thought of as anything that pulls us away from doing the work we know is most important to us. It takes many forms (including procrastination, fear, distraction, and negative self-talk), but the effect is often similar: we find or permit all kinds of barriers to keep us from becoming the person we want to be, or from completing the thing we really want to make. Whether that’s being a published author, a composer, a playwright, or a painter, our impulse to create constantly battles an impulse to do something else, or to do nothing — to not upset our weirdly comfy stasis.